I have had a few different people ask my opinion on doing bridals in the last few weeks so I thought I’d share my view of this type of session.

Bridal’s are a mostly southern tradition. The most common result of them is a large portrait displayed at the guestbook table and sometimes a bridal book.

First let’s address why people have been stepping away from them nowadays.

1.  Simply the fact that it is tradition… is a turn off for many people. “Classic” is a wonderful word in the world of wedding but “traditional” makes some brides feel like their nuptials will be boring. A mix of influences, starting with but not limited to Pinterest has shown girls that just because “it’s the way things has always been done” is no longer a reason to do things.
2. It’s another cost. Hair, makeup, photographer, and then the physical portrait… It all adds up and we aren’t made of money here.
3. No time.  Hello, whoever came up with all the traditions and stuff to do before your wedding was just plain mean.
4. Vanity or lack there of. Some brides don’t feel comfortable having a large portrait of themselves on display. For this reason there is a growing popularity in getting a large print from the engagement session instead.

Now let’s look at some reasons why you should consider sticking with tradition

1. Practice round. This has so many benefits. You can schedule your makeup and hair so that you can see the whole package and even, if needed, make changes. You don’t want to be crying day of about how your eyes aren’t shadowed how your dreamed they would be. Also it gives whoever is helping you get dressed to make sure they know your dress without the pressure.
2.  If you’re camera shy… Some girls think that if they don’t like having their picture taken they should avoid any extra time in front of the camera. Personally, I disagree. If you’re uncomfortable with pictures, some time with fewer people around and less stress can be a great time to get feedback from your photographer and share your concerns with them. In turn they can give you posing tips and hopefully seeing the results will boost your confidence for the wedding day.
3. Your parents. No matter how you feel about the photos. You should ask your parents how they feel, especially if they are the ones paying for your photography. Your bridal portrait is in reality the last chance they will have photos taken of you by yourself. You’re dressed up, you’re done up, you’re their princess and they want to hold on to that anyway they can.
4.  Show your best side. Some people make the arguement of ‘why do people need a picture at the reception when I am already there in the same room in the same outfit?’ Let’s face it bright/hot/unflattering lights, dancing, the general activities of the day, it all adds up to your hair and makeup being not quite as perfect as when the day started. Your portrait will show you at your best. Also, if your dress is bustled at the reception having a bridal portrait can show people it’s full glory.